If you haven’t had a date in three months, I’d suggest that tossing around phrases like “scary,” “sloppy seconds” and, whoa, “sexual clowns”(???) isn’t going to fill up your dance card any faster.

Just the other day, I introduced an ex of mine to another man I once wanted to sleep with but he was never that into me. I’m still friends with both and, now that those two know each other, I hope sparks fly and they have sex like rabbits and/or marry. I certainly wouldn’t want them worrying where I might fit into that equation. I don’t!

Must you be the one to say no? No. There’s only one ‘membership rule’ that matters: be good to yourself and the others. Now relax and have fun 🙂